Love and Joy in Holy Matrimony Based on the Holy Bible: Read and what's your view
(1) Being aware that you are not the only man or woman in this world that could be interested in your love partner or spouse👇: According to Songs of Songs also known as Songs of Solomon
Song of Songs 1:1 THE MOST BEAUTIFUL OF SONGS, BY SOLOMON.
The woman sang (Song of Songs 1: 2-3) : Your lips cover me with kisses; your love is better than wine. THERE IS A FRAGRANCE ABOUT YOU; THE SOUND OF YOUR NAME RECALLS IT. NO WOMAN COULD HELP LOVING YOU.
The man's reponse (Songs of Song 1: 8-11) : Don't you know the place, loveliest of women? Go and follow the flock; find pasture for your goats near the tents of the shepherds. YOU, MY LOVE, EXCITE MEN AS A MARE EXCITES THE STALLIONS OF PHARAOH'S CHARIOTS. Your hair is beautiful upon your cheeks and falls along your neck like jewels. But we will make for you a chain of gold with ornaments of silver.
Note that: "King Solomon was also an Excellent Musician and Lyricist. He was wise through God Himself."
(2) Duty of a woman/man in a love relationship (Holy Matrimony) 👇🏼:
(a) For as long as you live: According to Romans 7: 1-3
"Certainly you will understand what I am about to say, my brothers and sisters, because all of you know about law. THE LAW RULES OVER PEOPLE ONLY AS LONG AS THEY LIVE. A married woman, for example is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives; but if he does, then she is free from the law that bound her to him. So then, if she lives with another man while her husband is alive, she will be called adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is legally a free woman and does not commit adultery if she marries another man."
(b) If you have committed the adultery already as a woman, don't condemn yourself for Jesus has not condemned you yet as you still have the chance to repent of such actions: According to John 8: 3-11
The teachers of the Law and the Pharisees brought in a woman who had been caught committing adultery, and they made her stand before them all. "Teacher," they said to Jesus, "this woman was caught in the very act of committing adultery. In our Law Moses commanded that such a woman must be stoned to death. NOW, WHAT DO YOU SAY?" They said this to trap Jesus, so that they could accuse him. But he bent over and wrote on the ground with his finger. As they stood there asking him questions, HE STRAIGHTENED HIMSELF UP AND SAID TO THEM, "WHICHEVER ONE OF YOU HAS COMMITTED NO SIN MAY THROW THE FIRST STONE AT HER." Then he bent over again and wrote on the ground. When they heard this, they all left, one by one, THE OLDER ONES FIRST. JESUS WAS LEFT ALONE, WITH THE WOMAN STILL STANDING THERE. HE STRAIGHTENED HIMSELF UP AND SAID TO HER, "WHERE ARE THEY? IS THERE NO ONE LEFT TO CONDEMN YOU?" "NO ONE, SIR," SHE ANSWERED. "WELL, THEN," JESUS SAID, "I DO NOT CONDEMN YOU EITHER. GO, BUT DO NOT SIN AGAIN."
(c) Real Marriage is a sacred body: According to Hebrews 13: 4-5
MARRIAGE IS TO BE HONOURED BY ALL, AND HUSBANDS AND WIVES MUST BE FAITHFUL TO EACH OTHER. God will judge those who are immoral and those who commit adultery. Keep your lives free from the love of money, and be satisfied with what you have. For God has said, "I will never leave you; I will never abandon you."
(d) The older men and women must train the younger ones by living the good life, that is, leading by example: According to Titus 2: 1-7
But you must teach what agrees with sound doctrine. INSTRUCT THE OLDER MEN TO BE SOBER, SENSIBLE, AND SELF-CONTROLLED; TO BE SOUND IN THEIR FAITH, LOVE AND ENDURANCE. IN THE SAME WAY, INSTRUCT THE OLDER WOMEN TO BEHAVE AS WOMEN SHOULD WHO LIVE A HOLY LIFE. THEY MUST TEACH WHAT IS GOOD, IN ORDER TO TRAIN THE YOUNGER WOMEN TO LOVE THEIR HUSBANDS AND CHILDREN, TO BE SELF-CONTROLLED AND PURE, AND TO BE GOOD HOUSE WIVES WHO SUBMIT TO THEIR HUSBANDS, SO THAT NO ONE WILL SPEAK EVIL OF THE MESSAGE THAT COMES FROM GOD. IN THE SAME WAY URGE THE YOUNG MEN TO BE SELF-CONTROLLED. IN ALL THINGS YOU YOURSELF MUST BE AN EXAMPLE OF GOOD BEHAVIOUR. BE SINCERE AND SERIOUS IN YOUR TEACHING.
(e) Love your wife and do not look at your wife as just a sex object to satisfy your lustful desires for her. In as much as sex is important in marriage, most especially, to procreate (to reproduce younger ones); sex is not the highest priority in marriage as a true child of God. Love for your woman/wife matters a lot: According to 1 Thessalonians 4: 1-5
Finally, our brothers and sisters, you learnt from us how you should live in order to please God. This is, of course, how you have been living. And now we beg and urge you in the name of the Lord Jesus to do even more. FOR YOU KNOW THE INSTRUCTIONS WE GAVE YOU BY THE AUTHORITY OF THE LORD JESUS. GOD WANTS YOU TO BE HOLY AND COMPLETELY FREE FROM SEXUAL IMMORALITY. EACH OF YOU MEN SHOULD KNOW HOW TO LIVE WITH HIS WIFE IN A HOLY AND HONOURABLE WAY, NOT WITH A LUSTFUL DESIRE, LIKE THE HEATHEN WHO DO NOT KNOW GOD.
(3) Sorrow may last in the night but JOY comes in the morning👇: According to Psalms 30:5-6
For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime; weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning. When I felt secure, I said, "I will never be shaken."
WHAT SAY YOU, PLEASE?
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